No swiping. No chatting. Tell us who you are and what you want. We’ll introduce you to one compatible person at a time — and if you both choose Coffee, we’ll schedule the date.
Our job: compatibility. Your job: decide whether you’d have coffee.
First things first
Are you eligible?
OVER35 is currently designed for serious singles aged 35–45.
Your profile
Tell us who you are.
Family
Do you have children?
Yes
No
Do you want children in the future?
Yes
No
Unsure
Would you date someone who has children?
Yes
No
It depends
Relationship
What are you here for?
Marriage
Long-term committed relationship
Serious relationship, open to marriage
How much independence do you need?
A lot — I need my own space
Balanced
I prefer lots of togetherness
Lifestyle
How do you actually live?
Home & social life
Your ordinary life matters.
Values
What needs to fit?
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Profile complete
We know enough to start looking.
We’ll respect your essentials first, then look for the strongest real-life fit.
Business owner · Has one child · Doesn’t want more children · Non-smoker · Social drinker · Active
Why we matched you
✓ Same future-family plans
✓ Both want a serious relationship
✓ Similar fitness and social lifestyles
✓ Both enjoy restaurants and travel
✓ Similar independence in relationships
OVER35 matches for compatibility. You decide attraction.
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Coffee means commitment
You’re interested.
Choose Coffee only if you genuinely intend to meet if Daniel feels the same.
In the prototype, Daniel has also chosen Coffee.
Next, OVER35 finds a real time that works for both of you.
It’s mutual
When can you meet?
Select every option that works. OVER35 will compare your availability with Daniel’s.
Thursday · 18:00
Friday · 17:30
Saturday · 10:30
Saturday · 14:00
Sunday · 11:00
✓
Your date is set
Saturday. Coffee. Done.
OVER35 COFFEE DATE
Saturday · 10:30
Father Coffee · Rosebank
45-minute coffee date Public venue · Johannesburg
We’ve prepared your calendar invitation. No chatting required. Just show up.
You can always cancel or reschedule if you feel unsafe, become ill, or circumstances change. Repeated no-shows can affect access to future introductions.